some random thoughts for the day: close friend
some random thoughts for the day: close friend
some thoughts, some questions and some feelings i have from the past and the present.. everyone should at least have a close friend while some have a few while others have a couple more.. within this group of close friends that we all have, they might be of the same sex and some are opposite sex.. i'm a person who get along better with guys (i'm just more tomboyish =) heez), so i made more guy friends as compare to gal friends (except that i got a couple of closer gal friends).
your close friend should treat you as his/her close friend too or maybe more than that. only the individual know himself/herself more. things always start as friends and sometime is the feeling and common interests and topic that make 2 become closer friends. i believe guy and gal can be close friend and nothing more than that (yes, i mean there is friendship and not the love relationship in this case). but sometime, at a certain point of time, one might fall for his/her close friend and maybe in a best case scenario is they both fall for each other at the right time. that's scenario 1..
scenario 2: one fall for his/her close friend but never confess and keep that special feeling within himself/herself as he/she is afraid to lose this relationship (love & friendship). so, the close friend might not know of the other person feeling. In this case, feeling were kept as secret unless was share.
scenario 3: one confessed to the close friend and the close friend is unsure too (in this case, the close friend is single). 3 outcome from this scenario - close friend rejected and still remain as close friend. - close friend rejected and no longer close friend. - close friend was unsure and both let things be, but things are just special within them cause it not only friendship but there love in this case too.
scenario 4: one never confessed but show signs of more than close friend. but this close friend is attached. things between them from outsider could see and sense that they are just more than close friends but both never admit or mention anything.
sometime i do wonder. within this close friend, do you ever once fall for him/her? maybe is in the past and nobody knows about it and it keep this past or feeling (mean all along you do like him/her) as a dark secret. sometime we tend to treat those that we do like/love/have that more than friend feeling maybe in the past or present, we tend to treat them much nicer and special from other close friends that we have. but it just that we yet to realise that. only the outsider could notice the difference in the attitude or attention we have on this close friend as compare to other close friends. but in every case, the close friend are of the opposite sex. we are really treating them difference without ourselves realising or we refuse to accept what others say.
in any case, we answer to nobody as we ourselves should know the answer more than anyone else... is it a hidden feeling that we chose not to disclose to anyone... and i do know of case whereby 2 close friends do like each other but they know things might not work out so both are attached to their own partner. but there is this special kind of feeling they have for each other..
alright.. enough of thoughts, questions and wonder.. some questions have no answer while some questions will have more than one answer.. as for me, i only live in my world of rejection and denial especially in the not so good sense.. but well, i don't do that so openly. i'm still the outgoing and cheerful at most time..
some thoughts, some questions and some feelings i have from the past and the present.. everyone should at least have a close friend while some have a few while others have a couple more.. within this group of close friends that we all have, they might be of the same sex and some are opposite sex.. i'm a person who get along better with guys (i'm just more tomboyish =) heez), so i made more guy friends as compare to gal friends (except that i got a couple of closer gal friends).
your close friend should treat you as his/her close friend too or maybe more than that. only the individual know himself/herself more. things always start as friends and sometime is the feeling and common interests and topic that make 2 become closer friends. i believe guy and gal can be close friend and nothing more than that (yes, i mean there is friendship and not the love relationship in this case). but sometime, at a certain point of time, one might fall for his/her close friend and maybe in a best case scenario is they both fall for each other at the right time. that's scenario 1..
scenario 2: one fall for his/her close friend but never confess and keep that special feeling within himself/herself as he/she is afraid to lose this relationship (love & friendship). so, the close friend might not know of the other person feeling. In this case, feeling were kept as secret unless was share.
scenario 3: one confessed to the close friend and the close friend is unsure too (in this case, the close friend is single). 3 outcome from this scenario - close friend rejected and still remain as close friend. - close friend rejected and no longer close friend. - close friend was unsure and both let things be, but things are just special within them cause it not only friendship but there love in this case too.
scenario 4: one never confessed but show signs of more than close friend. but this close friend is attached. things between them from outsider could see and sense that they are just more than close friends but both never admit or mention anything.
sometime i do wonder. within this close friend, do you ever once fall for him/her? maybe is in the past and nobody knows about it and it keep this past or feeling (mean all along you do like him/her) as a dark secret. sometime we tend to treat those that we do like/love/have that more than friend feeling maybe in the past or present, we tend to treat them much nicer and special from other close friends that we have. but it just that we yet to realise that. only the outsider could notice the difference in the attitude or attention we have on this close friend as compare to other close friends. but in every case, the close friend are of the opposite sex. we are really treating them difference without ourselves realising or we refuse to accept what others say.
in any case, we answer to nobody as we ourselves should know the answer more than anyone else... is it a hidden feeling that we chose not to disclose to anyone... and i do know of case whereby 2 close friends do like each other but they know things might not work out so both are attached to their own partner. but there is this special kind of feeling they have for each other..
alright.. enough of thoughts, questions and wonder.. some questions have no answer while some questions will have more than one answer.. as for me, i only live in my world of rejection and denial especially in the not so good sense.. but well, i don't do that so openly. i'm still the outgoing and cheerful at most time..
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