debate debate then cold war. i hate that..

things that we debate on never have an outcome.. coz we know we believe in different stuff and we have different view and character.. sometime it isn't me that don't see the point is just that we both have different view and point on different things.. is i stubborn but is just that you dun think the point i'm thinking about and u don't think the point i'm talking about.. we are just 2 different persons.. i'm stubborn, persistent, obstinate, too straightforward(in the sense of not respect others' feeling), big woman (woman's ego).. whatever.. i dun care.. that is just me.. i'm sorry i cant be like friends that u have that are gentle, soft-spoken, speak with care and concern about your feeling.. phrase words so nicely to you that make you give in (even though whatever i said is the same, just that the words i use are stronger and maybe "pushy").. sometime i do wonder.. how many time can we go through these.. coz we always have different belief and opinion and view.. we think and act differently.. but everytime we debate.. we always end up with cold war.. i just dun wanna quarrel.. and especially on things that are not that important.. you understand.. i hate to see we in the state of not talking.. or ignoring each other.. haiz.. sometime.. i do wonder.. do i suit to be ur girlfriend... i'm just a bad girlfriend that i think.. u should deserve a better one...