learn to love yourself before loving others. but don't love yourself so much that you can love others anymore.. i must love myself more and more each day. everytime i love, i love others more. how i wish i could really draw a separation boundary for percentage of love. love myself 20% and the rest of 80% to love others, so at the end of the day, when others don't love you, at least you still have 20% of love and not feeling your whole world collapses..

this was once i was advised when my relationship failed. but till now, i have yet to master that loving yourself thingy as i always thought when in love, you got to love 100%. maybe only silly ppl do that and in the end only themselves got hurt..