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作者 ： 张小娴
作品 ： 不过是一块跳板

我们都曾经以为，有些事情是不可以放手的。
我们不会放弃一个人。
我们不会离开一个人。
我们不会让一个人离开我们。
我们不会让那个不爱我们的人得到自由。
我们不会忘记。
是的，我们咬牙切齿地说： “我是不会放手的。”
其实，没有什么东西是不能放手的。
时日渐远，当你回望，你会发现，你曾经以为不可以放手的东西，只是生命里的一块跳板。
所有的哀伤、痛楚，所有不能放弃的事情，不过是生命里一个过渡，你跳过了，就可以变得更精彩。
人在跳板上，最辛苦的不是跳下来那一刻，而是跳下来之前，心里的挣扎、犹豫、无助和患得患失，根本无法向别人倾诉。我们以为跳不过去了，闭上眼睛，鼓起勇气，却跳过了。
有什么东西是不可以放手的呢？ 你倾尽所有去爱他，你以为你绝对不会放手。
当他要走，你又可以怎样？
失恋、失意，甚至失婚，以至我们在爱情里所受的苦，都不过是一块跳板，令你成长。
不要再说 “我是不会放手的”，说这句话太笨了。

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the above website is Li Teang intro to mi today.. realli appreciate n touched with wat she did.. yes.. the essay sound very nice.. thanks alot.. i'm realli will think through de.. u sae "u never ask mi to let go, just see wat decision is the most correct one then will not regret after u fight for that" realli thanks alot.. thanks for ur care n concern.. like what ur nick sae "越害怕失去的人，越容易失去。越想得到，就越要放手。放手是很难的，但是别无选择"... recently like alot of things is happening.. everyone is trying so hard to get hold n to let go.. guess that is life ba.. some can just let go n some just cant let go.. mayb just cant let go for the time being.. some might never let go forever.. is realli the time will tell everything.. as for mi.. i oso dunno i belong to which category.. haha.. read a few of my friends blog recently.. i just realise life isn't easy for everyone too.. life isnt for mi too.. studying is tough but working is also tough.. everyone got their difficulties n troubles.. y must i still go n add on to others troubles.. u noe u can handle stuff by urself.. happie or sad u noe u can also handle it.. there isnt the special one now to share ur happiness n sadness.. so the more u must let urself get stronger.. u dun haf to let all ur emotions out.. u will affect everyone mood.. if u r happiness u can share with ur friends n let them be happi too.. but if u r sad or moody.. just keep that emotions to urself.. u dun haf the need to shows all the emotions.. u dun wanna affect others also.. even how much u wan something or how much u hate something.. dun show it to others.. when ppl realli read ur mind n thoughts easily.. u feel like u cant even keep a secret to urself forever.. but someday someone will come to u n make u open ur heart n mind.. it can be a friend.. a close friend.. it can be a special friend.. it might be ur love ones.. someday the someone will come to u..

anyway.. exam realli coming real soon.. still got alot of assignment report n essay to chiong ar.. sian to max.. haiz.. sian sian sian..


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